Ahh the work Christmas party!
The mere words conjure thoughts of too much alcohol, loud music, superficial conversations and lots of people, many of whom you hardly know. “What a great opportunity to get to know everyone better!” you try and tell yourself, but the reality is that for many of us, and particularly for those with Social Anxiety Disorder (SAD), the work Christmas party presents not only the opportunity to embarrass ourselves, but to be judged and to experience uncomfortable pauses and draw blanks in conversations with those we don’t know very well. Sounds like a blast, right? Wrong.
Social Anxiety Disorder is a form of anxiety that is characterised by a strong fear of social interaction or performance situations because of the potential for embarrassment or humiliation. According to a recent Australian survey of mental health, social anxiety affects 3.8% of males and 5.7% of females. Often, people with this type of social phobia feel the only way to cope with their feelings is to avoid social situations.
So what can you do to get a handle on your anxiety in the lead up to the office Christmas party? Here are some tips:
Finally, don’t put yourself under pressure to go, particularly if your anxiety is elevated and you feel like you do not have appropriate coping strategies in place. Give yourself permission to say “no” and to accept you as you are at this place in time. There is always next year to work towards!
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